(Bobbi Finch working in class)
On any given day at
Linn-Benton Community College you will see students of non-typical age, doing their
best to make their dreams come true. Bobbi Finch is one of them. She said, one
of her biggest challenges she has had in coming back to school is, not knowing
where she fits in.
There are a lot of older
students here at LBCC that feel like they’re not sure where they socially fit
in. After all, the whole school scene is typically geared for the younger
generation, not for people in their later years. Bobbi Finch, 50- years old,
has had some real challenges in her returning to school, after so many years of
being out of school.
Bobbi Finch has travailed
all over the world, being married to a U.S. Marine Corps soldier. She and her
ex-husband had 5 children. They moved a lot due to being stationed somewhere
new every 23 months.
Finch has now lived in
Oregon 17-years, where she has finished raising her children as a single mom. She
has been trying to earn her degree since 1998. This in itself has been a
challenge, due to being a sole provider for her kids. She said that she has had
to interrupt her schooling many times over the years to work and take care of
the needs of her children.
Now that all of her kids are
adults, even her baby, Nick, who is 18-years old, she no longer feels like she
has to be responsible for their needs. Finch said, “All I have to worry about
is me, it’s my time to finish college and get my English degree, I want to be a
travel reporter.”
Nick said, “I’m proud of
her, I’m glad she still has the will to go back and finish what she started so
many years ago. My mom is a strong woman.”
She
started college again, as of fall term this school year 2014-2015, after
checking with LBCC, she knew she only had four classes left to take to earn her
English degree. She thought this would be an EASY TRANSITION, knowing she had
been here before.
Finch, has encountered some
situations that weren’t very comfortable for her. Finch said, “The attitude of
the younger generations is so rude. I have been told things like, if you don’t
get your homework done, you’re on your own. Their attitude is, if you can’t keep
up with us, then why are you here?”
“When it comes to the
younger generation, there is a big world of difference between us and them, it’s
a sad one, because it’s a ME, ME, ME, from them, instead of we have to help
each other.” Finch said.
When talking to Vikki
Maurer, a math instructor who has worked at LBCC for 21-years, about the
generation problems she has seen, Maurer said, “I have seen it from both sides,
the rudeness. What I see more now with all the social media with the younger
people so plugged in, they tend to isolate their selves, because they connect
with their phones better than anything else. Inner personal communication is
hard for them, where just a few years ago it wasn't that way.”
Nick said,” I think what is
going on, is that the younger generation thinks that the older generation doesn't want to have anything to do with them, because they think that they couldn't have anything in common with them. So it’s just no one talking to no one, and that’s
the problem.”
“We had high school students
mixing with the older students, and I never saw the kind of problems I’m seeing
now, the rudeness, but from both sides. So from Bobbi’s point of view, she has
had some interactions that weren't favorable, but I see it both ways. The younger generation, they just need somebody to reach out, because they are uncomfortable
now making those connections in person, we can learn so much from each other.”
Maurer said.
Maurer has Finch in her Math
98 class this term; she says Bobbie is a bright student, always thinking and
asking questions, always working very hard. She is a very caring person.
When talking to Finch about
these opinions, she said, “I really never thought about it that way, maybe that’s
what is going on.”
Finch’s dream is to become a
travelling reporter. She wants to travel around to places no one has written
about, and use her first times eyes, see things that people never knew were
there. Like some small town that no one would have ever known hosts a rodeo
every year.
No matter what, she is going
to make it through her last four classes and get her degree. You will see her
walking down that aisle this June and receive her future.
Bobbi Finch
(Math 98)At a Glance
1. Who:
Bobbi Finch
2. Where:Linn-Benton Community College
3. What:
Generation Gap if you need help Contact: Counseling and Advising at LBCC
4. Why:
To earn her English Major
5. When:
She will graduate June of 2015.